Sometimes death comes without warning. The most common causes are heart attacks, and accidents. But sometimes, people just die without warning—in their sleep. We are going about our lives and suddenly, with the unexpected loss of a loved one, everything has changed for us. Our first reactions may be a mix of shock, anger, fear, sadness, confusion, and disbelief. As the reality of the situation sinks in, we wonder what to do next. Here is a step by step guide to follow during those first difficult hours.
STEP TWO When Someone You Love Dies
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Who do you call? What do you need to do? This section will try to answer all your questions at this stressful and often, confusing time. It's the place to come to when you need somewhere to turn and someone to provide you the answers.
Pre-Planning & Caregiving
- Plan Ahead: Guide to ease the burden on families
- Hospice & Palliative Care: Information, costs, eligibility and more
- Why hospice? A personal perspective
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When Someone You Love Dies
- 24/7 emergency help
- Who to call and documents you will need
- Reducing stress at the worst time in your life
Saying Good-Bye
- Memorial services
- Obituaries: How to write
- Eulogies: Do’s and don’ts
- How families are choosing caskets
- How families are choosing urns
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Achieving Remembrance
I'll Remember You
Why do people carve their initials in trees? Or place their hands in cement? They want to leave their mark, and to be remembered. But the real marks they leave are the ones they've made on us. A hug. A smile. A kind word. We want to remember them. This touching video helps families see how remembering can help them deal with loss.
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Inspirational Quotations
“A smile of encouragement at the right moment may act like sunlight on a closed-up flower; it may be the turning point for a struggling life.” -Unknown
“Cry out for insight and understanding. Search for them as you would for lost money or hidden treasure.” -Proverbs 2:3-4
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