Delivering a eulogy for a friend or family member is a wonderful way to participate in the funeral service. It is an opportunity to acknowledge the importance of the life lived, and to remind survivors of the memories and legacy left behind. Nearly any eulogy, if delivered with love and respect, can be considered a good one, and a funeral audience will be one of the most sympathetic and forgiving audiences you will ever find.
STEP THREE Help In Saying Goodbye
• Capturing a Life In Words
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How do you find the right words to say good-bye to a close relative or friend? The task is often a daunting one for even the most gifted writer or eloquent speaker. In this section, you will find good sense advice, helpful tips, and examples of what family members and friends have chosen to honor their loved ones in words.
Pre-Planning & Caregiving
- Plan Ahead: Guide to ease the burden on families
- Hospice & Palliative Care: Information, costs, eligibility and more
- Why hospice? A personal perspective
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When Someone You Love Dies
- 24/7 emergency help
- Who to call and documents you will need
- Reducing stress at the worst time in your life
Saying Good-Bye
- Memorial services
- Obituaries: How to write
- Eulogies: Do’s and don’ts
- How families are choosing caskets
- How families are choosing urns
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Achieving Remembrance
I'll Remember You
Why do people carve their initials in trees? Or place their hands in cement? They want to leave their mark, and to be remembered. But the real marks they leave are the ones they've made on us. A hug. A smile. A kind word. We want to remember them. This touching video helps families see how remembering can help them deal with loss.
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Inspirational Quotations
“A smile of encouragement at the right moment may act like sunlight on a closed-up flower; it may be the turning point for a struggling life.” -Unknown
“Cry out for insight and understanding. Search for them as you would for lost money or hidden treasure.” -Proverbs 2:3-4
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